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How Does Your Question Feel?

Posted on Feb 14th, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

question-mark"Why not me?"

That's the question I happened to hear in two different client sessions this week. 

One client asked it with an air of hope and optimism; the other with a sense of despair and frustration.

It struck me how the same words, the same question, had such different vibrations associated with it.

Why not ME??

Why NOT me?

hee hee - I  love how this deliberate creation work calls for a willing awareness of the energy flowing amidst all these words.

The "why not ME??" client was focused on how things seemed to be happening for others but not for her.  She felt overlooked and falling behind.  (Until we refocused, of course, which she quickly engaged.)

The "why NOT me?" client could see lots of reasons why things should be and could be coming together for him.  He could have been singing the "future's so bright, I have to wear shades" song.  His energy felt like it was a no-brainer that success would find him.

So my question to you:

How does your question feel?  Are your words encouraging an empowering feeling within?  Or a limiting one?  Are they positive, or are you headed for trouble with them? 

Pay attention .. and celebrate your ability to fine tune your way through this manifesting process.

Fun stuff, huh?!

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How Can We Help?

Posted on Feb 12th, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

koalasYesterday Russ came home to find me in tears because of a little injured bird outside my office window I'd spent much of the day trying not to worry about.

But worry was virtually all I did. 

Although she was alert and eating just fine, she couldn't maintain her balance and could barely hop a few inches across the snow to dry ground under a bush. 

All day I wondered what had happened to her, what I could do to help, wondered what would happen to her.  Trying to make peace with something I didn't know how to help.

I phoned the vet, the aviary, a friend at the Humane Society.  I called in angels (for both of us).  I brought the cat inside.  I asked fellow tweeters for suggestions, and then requested some long distance reiki be sent.  I put food & water within closer reach to her.  I wouldn't let Russ park in the garage because I was afraid he'd frighten her when he drove by.

I was a wreck over this little bird.

With that in mind, I can't imagine witnessing the damage done by the Australian bush fires. 

In fact, I've purposely not tuned in to the details of what's happened there. 

Someone emailed photos of "thirsty koalas," which were heartbreaking to realize what trouble these amazing creatures must be in to seek human help.  I saw the video clip of the firefighter rescuing Sam.  And I heard a human death toll at 118.  But other than running across that information by mistake, really, I haven't kept up to speed with what's happening.

Mostly because it seems a lot to bear.  I mean, I'm the girl falling to pieces over the little bird. 

How to make peace with what Australia is experiencing with these unprecedented fires?

It feels a lot to ask.

And yet we've been asked.

Someone requested I post about the Australian fires in order to harness the positive energy of this blog community, and to get strong vibes sent to the neighborhood that could use them now.  To help Aussies (and those across the globe watching) come to terms with the sadness and shock so many feel.

My first thought was that I don't post on topics that draw the energy down.  You won't find me writing about political wranglings or celebrity gossip or how bad the economy is.  After all, we're focused on what we want more of, right?  We know how to put our attention on what we want, which means we usually have to learn not to follow mass consciousness.

And yet ... something about that feels a little .. resistance-y.

It reminds me of when a clairaudient woman gave me a reading years ago and said, "No wonder you have such huge walls up.  You feel the pain of the planet and of mass consciousness."  She said the walls were how I avoided feeling others' suffering.

Which doesn't seem very .. well, my Mexican ex-fiance would say .. "That's not very 'white' of you."  (Yes, these are the colorful phrases burned inside my memory forever.  And I love that about me.  And my ex.)

Anyway ... law of attraction savvy people don't have to hide their heads in the sand about all the "bad news" flowing these days. 

We don't have to plug our fingers in our ears, singing "la la la" in order to avoid hearing the fears of our co-workers.  We don't have to avoid the news at all costs, afraid that if we hear a snippet here or there we'll get dragged along for the ugly ride.

I guess, to me anyway, it just doesn't feel quite right to say "that's your gig, not mine," completely detaching from a fellow being's challenge.  Because we're all in this together, aren't we?

And because we can help.

With this post I'm soliciting your best ideas about how to do that. 

  • We know we don't help by joining another in their pain and suffering.  But perhaps we can alleviate some of their pain by offering compassion and sending love.
  • It probably doesn't help to see the situation as "pain and suffering" either, since that perspective just creates more of those vibes.  Perhaps we can see things in a way that creates light and healing.
  • We also know that praying for something as if it didn't already exist just perpetuates the absence of it.  So a helpful step might be sending prayers that are filled with the feelings we want for Australia and her inhabitants.

Maybe we know how to be in the presence of death and destruction without resisting it.  Maybe, together, we can alleviate the stress worn by a handful of fellow beings, and ease their burden with our simple presence of love and acceptance.

I'm inviting your thoughts because I suspect we've much to learn on this topic, myself especially included.

When my little bird was in trouble, or at least when I thought she was in trouble, I reminded myself that nothing really dies.  That we have the highest guidance along our journey.  That we are never alone, and that good things are always happening.

Even in this economy.  Even in this brush fire. 

Then I had a good cry which helped move the negative energy I'd been flowing, and allowed me to find my way to peace again.

Which is when my bird disappeared.  I went out with a flashlight but couldn't find her anywhere.  Very curious, I thought, that the bird who couldn't hop more than a few inches went a.w.o.l. 

I wondered if my worry had kept her stuck in place, and after my good cry she was able to move on.

But later that night Russ found her, picked her up in a soft towel, and placed her in the cat carrier.  She spent the night in the quiet warm upstairs guest bedroom.  Today she's at the local bird rescuer's place, on the mend and looking forward to a spring release.

Things always work out, don't they?  They always have and always will.  Time proves that out.  And it seems to work out best when we support each other with love and whatever other good vibes we can conjure up.

So here's to sending the good vibes to our Aussie neighbors.  You are not alone; we are with you; and much love is coming your way.

Namaste.

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Transforming Bad News

Posted on Feb 10th, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

Michael Neill's recent newsletter got my attention.  Not just because I'm a fan of both Michael and Katie, but also because I, too, regularly encourage people to find a perspective that feels better.

Often clients hear that request (to find a better feeling perspective) as instruction to "deny reality."  But the truth is that there's no such thing as black and white "reality."  All there is is our perspective of the world, which is what creates our "truth."

If we find a different angle from which to view the world, we can find a better way to feel about it.  And that changes everything.

Here's the story Michael shared while making the case for purposely shifting from victim role to creator role (which is how we transform "bad news"): 

The other day a client I'll call Dale said to me "Can you believe what's going on with the economic stimulus package?"

When I said I could, he said "I mean, it's like both sides are putting scoring political points ahead of taking care of the country."

After nodding my head in agreement to this and a few more statements like it, I finally asked him what it was about the possible accuracy of his observation that was causing him to act like a victim of it.

"What do you mean?" he asked. "Are you implying that I'm NOT a victim of this? After all, I didn't create this - I don't even have a mortgage. But my business is still suffering for it. If anyone's a victim of this economy it's me!"

I then told him a story about the foibles of living in a victim culture.

A few years back, Byron Katie was a guest on a show I was hosting. As she likes to do, rather than be interviewed she chose to work with callers. The first woman who called in unfolded her story hesitantly, and it was a horrific one. She had been kept in a cage as a child, and was subject to many of the things you would expect someone who was kept in a cage to have been subject to.

After about ten minutes with Katie, this woman had found a peace with her childhood experience that had eluded her for nearly thirty years. While as a child she had been an innocent victim, as an adult she was able to let go of that victim status and reclaim her rightful place as the creator of her experience and the owner of her life. And then, much to my surprise, the phone calls started coming. Rather than congratulate Katie on the awesome shift she had been able to facilitate in this woman, person after person (some of them proudly declaring themselves as therapists and counselors) denounced Katie for "making it OK" for this woman to be free of the past she had carried with her for most of her life. 

What this story points to is both our cultural tendency to see ourselves as victims (and in so doing create a world filled with villains and heroes), and the potential any one of us has IN ANY MOMENT to make different choices and create a completely different experience of being alive.

The minute you make the shift from victim to creator, what's happening in the world stops being bad news (or even good news) and becomes instead simply information - information you can use to make informed decisions about what you want to create moving forward.

I think three things are important here:

  1. to become aware when we're in victim mode,
  2. to ask ourselves what payoff, if any, we get from that role (so we can release it) and
  3. to develop skills of neutralizing "bad news" in order to align vibrationally to what we say we want.

This post is long enough, so I'll leave it at that for now.  Thanks to Michael for sharing such valuable insight, and as always, I'd love to hear your thoughts.  :)

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What's Real, Anyway?

Posted on Feb 6th, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

realityI have to admit that although I pride myself on being open to new possibilities (and thus new realities), there are some things that even I take for granted

For example, that microwaved food is not healthy.  And that deep breathing is.  That sleeping with the tv on is not a good habit, and that giving to charity is.

I mean, there are some things we can always count on, right?  Those things are the "givens" in our world.  It's what we KNOW.

Sometimes, though, what we KNOW doesn't serve us.  And when that's the case, it's important to remember that nothing's set in stone.

Lately, it seems, there's been a lot of evidence that reminds me to question what I "know."

Including Garrett Gunderson's Killing Sacred Cows, where he says many things we financial planners were taught as rock solid truths actually don't serve the average investor. 

Gunderson's argument was so convincing that I started rethinking investment principles I've assumed true for decades.  (Including that regular savings, added up over time, benefiting from the power of compound interest growth, is a super solid investment strategy.

Maybe, maybe not.

My world was turned even more upside down after reading an article outlining several important medical benefits from indoor tanning.  (Health benefits from tanning beds?!  I gotta say I like it!)

Late last year I heard a very credible doctor tell me the best way to lose weight was to get more sleep.  (Which fit perfectly with the "I lose weight while I sleep" mantra I'd just created.) 

Fellow coach Zoe Routh recently introduced me to a resource designed to improve health by correcting the "over oxygenation" most people experience. 

There's such a thing as too much deep breathing??   

Is nothing sacred?

Apparently not.  Last year I was talking to a highly esteemed scientist (his title too complex to remember right), and he said that there is no real evidence that microwaves are  bad for us.  I'd chalk him up to crazy, if I hadn't recently heard that 31,000 scientists have signed their name to a petition denying global warming.

What about eating salads, right?  We all know leafy greens are good for us - the more the better!  "A salad a day" was what I was taught to strive for. 

And yet, at the Chopra Center's "Perfect Health" week retreat, I learned through ayurvedic study of my imbalanced doshas that I needed to stop eating salads and instead eat heavier foods (like sour cream, guacamole, mm!). 

What else do we know for sure?  That terrorists attacked the World Trade Center on September 11, 2001?  Don't be so sure.

Kim Falconer's explanation of reality served to scramble even more ideas about what's real and what's not.  (Thanks for a scientific perspective I can understand, Kim!)

I don't share these various examples to suggest we stop saving or recycling or exercising or breathing deeply, but rather to just to remind us to question what "realities" we'd change if we could.

Because, indeed, we can.

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Superbowl Inspiration

Posted on Feb 1st, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

mchughThis excerpted story by Dan Wetzel comes from the Yahoo Sports page. 

I've shared it with clients this week because of the inspiration the last two sentences offer for being able to view a challenging or discouraging situation from a more empowering point of view. 

The bolded sections are my favorite parts (including finding a positive perspective, purposeful appreciation, and incorporating strong expectations). 

Hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

TAMPA, Fla. – Sean McHugh had just bought his family’s first house in suburban Detroit.

He’d just found out his wife, Ashlee, was pregnant with their second child, a daughter to go along with their then-18-month-son, Jack – though the excitement was tempered due to some early complications with the pregnancy.

The good news was McHugh had just survived final cut day with the Detroit Lions, meaning he was all but assured another year in professional football. He hoped to start at fullback and would play for the league minimum – about $520,000 for his experience level.

But just before the first practice in September, he was summoned to the office of team president Matt Millen. He knew the drill.

“When they come get you and Matt wants to talk to you, it’s never a good thing,” McHugh said. “You just have a sinking feeling. You walk through the locker room, up a flight of stairs and you just think, ‘What the heck is going on?’ ”

What was going on was that he got cut, fired, laid off by Detroit. The team had signed someone else and to make room, McHugh was out.

Just like that, Sean McHugh was deemed not good enough to play for the lowly Lions, who would go winless – the first 0-16 season in league history.

If you’re not good enough to play for the worst team ever, who exactly are you good enough to play for?

“What are we going to do?” he thought.

How about play in the Super Bowl?

Within days of Detroit cutting him, he unexpectedly signed with the Pittsburgh Steelers. Four months later he finds himself here preparing for a shot at an NFL championship against the Arizona Cardinals.

Cut by the worst team, McHugh may wind up part of the best.

“That’s the thing I’ll never understand,” he said. “They didn’t think I was good enough to be on the worst team in the history of the NFL, but the people here think I’m good enough to help the team out and play in the Super Bowl.

“I go from getting cut from the Detroit Lions and thinking life’s over and flash-forward and now you’re getting ready to play for a Super Bowl.”

There’s never been a story like McHugh’s in the NFL because there’s never been a team as bad as the Lions this season. This isn’t just worst to first, it’s worst-ever to first.

“You go from the lowest low to the highest high,” he smiled.

McHugh is a blue-collar guy from outside of Cleveland. He knows how fortunate he is to play a single down in the NFL, let alone parts of four seasons with his current salary. He’s hesitant to compare his situation to the estimated 2.6 million Americans who lost their jobs in 2008.

He wasn’t living check to check. He was pursuing a dream. He gets it.

Still, getting fired is getting fired. The fact he’s never had more than a one-year deal means he has more in common with the fan in the stands than many of his mega-millionaire teammates.

“It’s not like I have money set away so I can spend the rest of my life not working,” he said. “We’ve been smart and lived within our means and saved so we have a cushion. But it’s a very real possibility that that money is going to run out.

“One of the hardest things you have to deal with [is] failing and feeling that you’re not good enough,” he said. “It’s a whole series of emotions.

McHugh contemplated his future. Was his career over at 26? Or could he catch on somewhere else? He had a bad ankle so the prospects weren’t good. Besides, was bouncing all over best for a young family? McHugh had long thought about becoming a high school coach; was this reality forcing a decision?

Ashlee, he said, helped him look at it in a positive way. They had college degrees. They were healthy (the pregnancy has progressed fine). Something would work out.

That night the phone rang. It was McHugh’s agent.

“Hey, the Steelers want to bring you in and check you out,” the agent said.

Three days later he was signed for the season. He’s been mostly a reserve fullback, making the most of his chances, doing the dirty work of blocking. He’s marveled at the culture of success that the Steelers organization has established.

There is an expectation when you become a Pittsburgh Steeler that you’re going to win,” he said. “And anything less than that is not acceptable. In Detroit it was like you were hoping to win.”

Only as the season played on, no matter how hard they hoped, Detroit didn’t win. Week after week as Pittsburgh experienced success, McHugh’s old team dealt with failure. He looked on with mixed emotions.

It’s a little bit of redemption, a little bit of success in the face of distress; a little bit about remembering that what appears to be the worst thing can turn out to be the best.

“A door closed,” McHugh said, “and a world opened.”

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Who's Responsible For This?

Posted on Feb 1st, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

responsibleThe other day my sweetie let me have it for something he did not approve of: I let my ex-beau pick up the dogs at our house for a dog walk (which Russ has repeatedly asked me not to do). 

My guy was upset for a variety of reasons so we were talking it out.  Among other things, he looked for reassurance that I wouldn't ever have a physically intimate relationship with my ex again.

"I really don't see that happening," I said.  (I know not to say "never," since that word often involves resistance, and flowing resistance is a fabulous way to invite it in.)  

As I gave serious consideration to Russ' inquiry and thought about the unlikelihood of a future sexual rendezvous with my ex, I realized that now the two of us were thinking about said rendezvous - and we all know what thoughts lead to

Especially thoughts driven by strong emotion!

What popped out next did NOT help: "Well, I don't see it happening ... unless you keep focusing on it."

Oh, boy. 

Even if Russ doesn't completely believe in the law of attraction, he knows I do.  And he did not like where I was going with it.

Which meant I was now in the hot seat for justifying my (theoretical) "bad behavior" on Russ' vibration.  He was exasperated at the thought that I would have an affair and blame it on him because his fears brought it about.

If he understood energy the way deliberate creators do, he would know that makes perfect sense.  Wouldn't he?

But his argument got me thinking ...

I wondered how many law of attraction-savvy folks let themselves off certain hooks by saying something like "Well, if you weren't vibrating it, it wouldn't have happened."

Like the couple times I've been stiffed by clients.  My ego wants to blame them for not following through on promises to pay, while the more rational part of me knows I can't experience something I'm not vibrationally lined up with.  I'm not a victim of "non-payers."  Rather, I'm responsible for what happens in my world.  Including not getting paid. 

One of my girlfriends who is familiar with the law of attraction basics has been known to tell family members that she is not responsible for their happiness and well-being.  (She usually reminds them of that after she's late for Thanksgiving dinner or insulted the intelligence of her sister's kids.) 

Her family has come to think of the law of attraction as a big excuse for someone to shirk what they are really responsible for.

When I hear about her exchanges, it sounds a little harsh that my friend says and does things she knows upsets her family, and then tells them it's their own fault for being upset.  She reasons that because they can choose how they feel, why don't they choose something that feels better than "upset"?

I get the logic, but something about that doesn't sit quite right.

And yet there I was ready to blame Russ for a potential affair I might have with my best friend.  (Although, it's not an affair if you're not married, right?  Anyway ...)

All of this has made me question ... what are we responsible for?

In sorting this out, my conclusion is yes, we are indeed responsible for what happens in our world.  And we are continually CO-CREATING with others

So Russ can't manifest my steamy hot night with an ex unless I (and my ex) are lined up with that.  I can't manifest longstanding receivables unless clients are dialed into not paying.  Family members don't get irreverent daughters showing up late for dinner unless everyone's flowing a common vibe on it.

It's the beauty of how Universe syncs up like vibrations. 

When we're happy, we attract people and circumstances that reinforce that feeling.  When we're disappointed, we attract the people and circumstances who are capable of reinforcing our disappointment. 

Rather than vibrating me into bed with an ex (ooh, kinky) it's probably more likely that if I'm vibrating fidelity while my sweetie is vibrating worry about my infidelity, then our dissimilar vibrations wouldn't allow us to stay in close proximity

Either we'd fall away from each other, or one of us is going to learn the other's vibration.

You know which option I'm going with, right?  ;)

As always, I'd love to hear your thoughts on this topic.  How have you noticed others' vibrations affecting you?  And where do you place the responsibility for what that leads to?

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Does It Really Work??

Posted on Jan 27th, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

cell-phone"Does it really work??"

That's the question a first date asked in disbelief (years ago) when I explained what law of attraction coaching was.  He'd never heard of the law of attraction, let alone life coaching. 

Suffice it to say, hearing about the power of our thoughts, the effects feelings have on our lives, and that we all have a vibration - it was very strange stuff to white collar MBA graduate business owner.

But it was a first date, and he was polite about expressing his skepticism. 

(Remember, this was before The Secret was out, and before Oprah and Larry King brought the concepts of manifesting to mainstream media.  So I probably sounded pretty "out there.")

Anyway, I explained that the process of segment intending (aka pre-paving) was an easy way to start building manifesting muscle. 

Simply hold in mind the outcome you want, imagine it happening, feel the feelings you would feel as it's unfolding, and then relax and go about your activity.  It's that simple.

Since he was wasn't talking, I changed the topic as we drove back to my car.  Less than two minutes later his cell phone rang. 

When he saw who it was, his jaw dropped.  He stared at me in disbelief.  Since he was speechless, all he could do was show me his caller ID - as if that would explain everything.

I didn't understand what the big deal was.  (But I did know if he answered his phone while on a date with me, this would also be our last date.) 

It turns out that while I was explaining segment intending - and talking about our power to create whatever we want in life - he wasn't wondering what kind of crackpot he was at lunch with.  Rather, he was already starting his first manifesting project: hearing back from his ex-girlfriend

Apparently he was still hung up on this fabulous girl, and had tried everything to reconnect with her.  But she wouldn't answer letters, texts, emails, phone calls, nada. 

Until that day.  Two minutes after he imagined how thrilling it was to be in touch with her again, to hear her voice, to have another chance to talk with her - that's when she called.  After months of no communication.

Needless to say, he was sold on LOA.  (And he DID answer his phone!  Stinkerhead.  Although we didn't date again, he did retain me to help turn his business around and we're friends to this day.)

I marveled at my powers to manifest myself right out of a new date while successfully teaching LOA to a disbeliever, and thought maybe I should practice what I preach and segment intend my first dates a little better than THIS!

That's one example I share with clients when they ask how long it takes for deliberate creation efforts to pay off, and how much they have to practice it before it works.

It doesn't take long and you don't have to be an expert.  (Or even believe in it, for that matter!)

If it's been a while since you played with segment intending, I invite you to pick it up again and impress yourself with your manifesting prowess

(And if you need a professional reminder about how easy all this manifesting stuff really is, you can be sure that working with an LOA expert will greatly increase your own confidence in the LOA process.)

Would love to hear some of your favorite pre-paving experiences!

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Three Innocent Words Reveal Misdirected Power

Posted on Jan 24th, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

problemDo you know three little words that when uttered out loud serve as screeching brakes on dreams come true, powerfully reinforcing a reality you don't want?

Three innocent words that - when you notice you're using them - can reveal a thought obstacle that prevents forward movement and stymies positive change?

We hear this combination of words regularly, from ourselves and those around us:

"The Problem Is ... "

Sound familiar?  I run across them a lot as a coach. 

  • "Sure I could get a job that I like better.  The problem is ... " 
  • "Yeah, I know I should talk to my girlfriend about how differently I see our future.  The problem with that is ..."
  • "The doctor wants me to exercise more.  The problem for me is ... "

And every time we speak this magical combination of words, we argue for our limitations and cut ourselves off from positive possibilities.  Talk about misdirection of our creative power!

But these words are also a gift, in that they show us where we're attached to energy and thought patterns that don't serve us.  They can reveal where we're grappling for a stronghold in the old, and not allowing in new desires we've launched.

These words can show where you're believing in limits.  They point the way to freedom to experience more of what you want and less of what you don't want.

When these words cross my lips, it's either as an excuse for something I'm feeling pressure to do:  "Sure, sweetie, I'd love to go grocery shopping, but the problem is I'm expecting a call." 

... or as an excuse for something that feels out of reach: "It would be nice to expand my material and availability to my audience, but the problem is that's more work than I'm up for." 

Recognizing the "problem" vibe is my chance to get clean and straight with my energy, and to withdraw power from problems.  It also shows me where I've invested belief in obstacles and impossibilities.  That awareness is what allows me to channel creative power toward solutions, possibilities and good times!

The next time you hear yourself saying "the problem is .. "  I invite you to take notice, smile about it, and set yourself free by either stepping over the obstacles or redirecting toward a more appealing path. 

You're a powerful creator who can have, be and do whatever you choose.  Have fun with it!  :)

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Marrying Up the Vibes

Posted on Jan 20th, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

firewater1There are some things we know just don't go together, right?  Like fire and water.  Love and fear.  Democrats and Republicans.  (ha!)

Yet sometimes what we KNOW is exactly what limits us from experiencing what we WANT. 

Which is a good time to recognize when we're buying into a limiting belief that doesn't serve us.

Of course, I'm talking about myself again.  (I'd rahter tell clients' stories, but that confidentiality thing makes me reveal my own hand instead.  tsk)

The other day I realized that while I want business to (continue to) THRIVE, I also want to RELAX more.  And these two vibes - THRIVE and RELAX - didn't seem to join up together too well in my head.  There was something inside telling me that if I relaxed, my ambitious business goals would suffer.  Like, if I slowed down, so would my career success.

That surprised me since in the past I've deliberately combined goofing off and making money.  But for some reason, Thriving and Relaxing seemed to not fit together.

Which shows me where my opportunity is. 

Because if I believe those two things don't go together, that's the way it is (for me).  I'd have to choose one or the other.  Which is NOT the mark of a deliberate creator!  Deliberate creators know we can have whatever we dare imagine! 

So all I have to do is resolve this incongruency in my belief system, and then I get to have my cake and eat it too.

Relax AND Thrive ... relaxing and thriving ... I've been trying those two on for size lately and seeing how well they complement each other. 

Makes perfect sense when I think about it, since a thriving business would feel good, and relaxing also feels good - so really, they're vibrational cousins, these Relax and Thrive energies. 

What would that look like, relaxing and thriving?  It would look like good things happening with the business even though I'm not - and this is easy to see now - ESPECIALLY because I'm not "worrying" over it night and day.  The more relaxed I am, the more opportunities I see, inspiration I feel, the better energy I flow ... the better business gets.

Of COURSE they go hand in hand, now that I think about it differently.  The more I relax, the more my business thrives.  And as I think, so shall it be.

So while I'm getting the hang of this, I'm really curious about what you might be holding yourself back from ... 

What would you combine if you could have your cake and eat it too?  Maybe ... long term relationship and a red hot sex life?  Oreos and a healthy trim body?  Corporate employment and nourishment for your soul?  Divorce and a happy relationship?

I'd love to hear what you're combining that others might not think is the natural way of things.  It'll not only help the rest of us see the limits we've unconsciously bought into, but also reinforce your liberation from old limits too.  :)

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Decree of Abundance

Posted on Jan 17th, 2009 by Jeannette : Vibe Management Expert Jeannette

Just finished reading Maureen Moss's  January 16th newsletter, in which she shares the Decree of Abundance.  After reading it, you'll see why I felt inspired to share it with you. 

Also included is Maureen's explanation of how she learned it:

Below is a powerful "Decree of Abundance" to utilize as a tool while the shift is on. It was given to me 17 years ago (author was unknown.) I added unto it to inflame its power and deepen its meaning.

Quick explanation:

Seventeen years ago a friend of mine handed the "Decree of Abundance" to me (in part) while I was in the midst of being paralyzed by life circumstances.

I read it and said I didn't believe a word of it. Her response, "I know, look at your life." As she walked out the door she glanced over her shoulder and said, "say it every day until you believe it, and the day you believe it, watch what happens."

Here is the "Decree Of Abundance" that changed my life, once I truly believed it. It stripped away a veil of forgetfulness and had me shoring up my relationship with God, which in turn changed my external circumstances. (Amazing how that happens.)

Beloveds, if you refuse to play out this cycle of Life with sweaty palms your life circumstances will change no matter what the economy is doing.

DECREE OF ABUNDANCE

From The Light of God that I Am.
From The Love of God that I Am.
From The Power of God that I Am.
From The Heart of God that I Am.

I Decree-

I dwell in the midst of Infinite Abundance. The Abundance of God is my Infinite Source.

The River of Life never stops flowing. It flows through me into lavish expression. Good comes to me through unexpected avenues and God works in a myriad of ways to bless me.

I now open my mind to receive my good. Nothing is too good to be true. Nothing is too wonderful to have happen. With God as my Source, Nothing amazes me.

I Am not burdened by thoughts of past or future. One is gone. The other is yet to come.

By the power of my belief, coupled with my purposeful fearless actions and my deep rapport with God, my future is created and my abundance made manifest.

I ask and accept that I am lifted in this and every moment into Higher Truth. My mind is quiet.

From this day forward I give freely and fearlessly into life and Life gives back to me with magnificent increase. Blessings come in expected and unexpected ways. God provides for me in wondrous ways.

I AM indeed grateful. And I let it be so.

Know you are LOVED.

Maureen Moss
Steward of The World Puja Network
http://www.worldpuja.org
http://www.maureenmoss.com
E-Mail: Maureen@worldpuja.org

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